Abuja - I was reading something that was telling women how to be irresistible to men they want and one said, ‘Ignore him.’ Ummm…in my logical mind and I guess his logical mind, doesn’t it communicate that you are not interested and he should not even try it?
That is bad piece of advice but I guess what they might have been trying to communicate is that you don’t text the guy 24/7 looking desperate. I choose to think that is what they meant.
Play hard to get
If you are five and he is five, then go ahead but I think people are mature this days and it is either you are in or out. At times games don’t get you where you need to be. You might end up losing because someone else showed interest while you were still teasing the guy.
That is actually not bad advice, you don’t pour all your life history for someone when they initially get to know you. But see the last bit- they are getting to know you! Don’t go on a date, say nothing, be nothing and just stare while someone struggles to keep the conversation going. That is not being mysterious, that is being boring.
Good. Until someone is too forward and turns someone off. Showing interest initially is conversation and following up. Not being too aggressive or risqué, pretty easy to turn someone off.
No one cares if you have sex on the first date
Actually we don’t but your date might actually care- especially if he is an old school African man you want to date seriously. Some men are liberal but most aren’t. He will date you by the way after having sex on the first date but he is just waiting for that one to come and dump you because of some issue he comes up with.