Abuja - Men are stress. Really!
When a woman is suddenly single or has been for a while she starts wondering what she could add to her life to make it better. Most of the time she ends up with the answer that a man will do. I would like you to ask yourself first why you broke up with the last one and why you have not been really interested in the one’s you have come across off late.
Then you will get the AHA! Moment, trust me!
Husbands and boyfriends don’t like you going off without telling them
It does not matter how innocent the activity- you report to him and give him your itinerary so that he is comfortable. Husbands also like it when you give them leeway to approve of the company you keep. Failure to which will result in drama such a sulking and scolding. Enjoy yourself as you can go off now whenever you want and with whoever because once you acquire any of these two it’s back to jailhouse like your father’s house.
Boyfriends and husbands like telling you who to talk to
‘There is just something about that guy that I do not like.’ I. I. I; no other word is of more importance in that sentence; he does not like it, you give it up for your sanity and if you actually want to make it work.
You can sleep hungry if you want or order take out or whatever
The way to a man’s heart is his stomach- give him food. If he is African you had better be in that kitchen learning some amazing skills. When you are single, you do not have to worry about anyone other than yourself. Boyfriends and husbands alike do not care if you work as well or whatever you did during the day; you need to show you are devoted to the cause- HIM, because he chose you above all others. If he is hungry, get him food. If he is watching a game, have a wife mind set and make a sandwich. Serve him with all submissiveness and adoration. If you are single, you can eat out of the pan if you want. You can just go to sleep.
You can have as much wine as you want and pass out without judgment
You can have wine for breakfast lunch and dinner and not worry about someone biting your ear about how wives and girlfriends behave. You do what you want whilst enjoying it with no one there to tell you, you are not behaving well since you had too much. You can even dance to your bad music taste while at it and enjoy yourself. Just get a man and see what happens.
Finally, this is not good advice but you can do whatever you want with whomever you want. If you know what I mean.
Enjoy being single; relationships take some good parts of your life.