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Kegels. Kegels. Kegels.
They are your friend, not just because they keep your coochie tight but because they are part of the reason you can actually get stronger orgasms. You can also do kegels during sex and it is a technique called milking; you just have to know when to go down while tightening your coochie muscles and let go while moving up depending on your position.
You have to know how to pleasure yourself….masturbation
If you do not know then how will the guy know? Maybe it is a sin or taboo but it is your body and you need to know how it works.
If you concentrate hard enough, it will not happen
Being in your head will ruin everything. It becomes mechanical and it will be harder to orgasm that way. The only thing you can concentrate on is the pleasure- if you are having it that is.
If it is not working you need to say
Don’t use words like, ‘You don’t know’, ‘you are not doing it right…’ because it will make someone lose interest and if they go on, they will not think about you. ‘I like’ or I want’ is a better way of saying stop or slow down or whatever you are asking for.