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He is unavailable for a relationship

17 July 2016, 14:45Shakila Alivitsa

Nairobi - It is not you it’s him. A woman’s vanity …and pride will make her stick around just saw she can prove to herself that even after saying no, he realized that she was that important to him.

Some people are just unavailable for a relationship.

He has just recently left a relationship- he was dumped

If you are looking for something serious avoid people who are going through a heartbreak and are trying to get over it (he was dumped). You will be a rebound for him to try and get over her. If it is fun you want, that is the place to be but if it is a serious relationship you are looking for, avoid the recently dumped guy.

The guy is in a relationship already

Or is married. People do not care for this one these days; we are all ready to share. Thing is, if you do care; he will not leave her. You go on and if he does, he can come look for you but don’t stick around listening to stories. Her stories and how he is tired and how he is thinking of the children, his ancestors and the family tree. That one is just unavailable.

Unless you want to try break up a marriage; in which case, that is none of my business.

He is closed up

This means he is unavailable emotionally. If it is not something that will bother you, then go ahead. If on the other hand you want someone who will open up to you without you being miserable about it, then this one is one to avoid. Some men just don’t talk and the word emotions is not in their vocabulary.

He tells you

‘I have too much going on.’ ‘I have too much work.’ ‘I don’t want anything serios.’ ‘I don’t want anything at all.’

Learn to listen.


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