Men, how do you tell when you have gone beyond being "just friends" with that female friend?
Well, here are the signs:
1. Secrecy. Do you close your email window when your wife walks by? When you leave out details about your day because they include encounters with friends, or even when you delete messages and call logs, then something is amiss. The minute you feel the urge to hide details, you have stepped over the line.
2. Sexual tension. Instinctively, you can tell the build-up of sexual tension between you and the other woman. That is a huge red flag.
3. Emotional intimacy. When you find yourself sharing your feelings and thoughts with your female friend more than your wife, you have already crossed the line.