Finding a spouse who’s a good fit can feel impossible in our world of high standards, fairy-tale romances, and well-intentioned but unrealistic stories of love at first sight.
In reality, it takes a great deal of wisdom, patience, and often many first dates with the wrong guys before we find the right one.
But why are some of those wrong guys just so tempting?
They lure you in with their good looks or their passionate talk about life and suddenly you realize that you’ve fallen for exactly the kind of guy your momma warned you about.
Sometimes, the guy we need least is the one we’re attracted to most.
Don't be afraid to cut a destructive relationship.
Avoid someone who is needy, mr/miss everything, mr/miss nice, mr/miss perfect and a mediocre guy.