CODE 1: "It's not how you play the game but how the game plays you" get coded! Most times Guys flow well with gals they naturally have feelings for; not of love but of lust. learn to know when he is serious and when he is playing mind games with you.
CODE 2: When they keep stirring at the sensitive parts of you all the time, its time to run because in his head he is thinking that one day he will have a part of your pound of flesh.
CODE 3: He gain control over you with his soft tempting words, like "pass the night now, come to my house, it is too late to go". Make your password(standards) cheap and he will tell his friends how valueless you are. Let him break your defenses easily and he will decide if he want to make it a one night stand; carry yourself like a queen, the way you see yourself is practically the way he will take you.
Code 4: Guys are creatures of God with masculine gender and also with a hard but fragile heart yet be coded enough to know the shy guy, the play boy, the pretenders, the mommy's boy, the gay boys, the raz boys, the godly man and the sharp guys, they have their different ways of approaching you and all of them have different needs you will serve them.
Code 5: Your "needs" leak out of literally little and honest conversations and that is what circles his plans. Needs like desperately in need of intimacy, money, jobs, need to roll with big and influential guys, need of using him to raise an ego and power; sex; and marriage etc That is the foundations of what he uses to build your illusion or reality. Information is our source of power don't spill it all.
Code 6: There are two roads, the first leads to the "land of maybe", the road is wide and many are treading its path. The other leads to the "promise land" and least occupied it because you abuse the fact that guys are attracted by what they see.
Code 7: Just like Inyaya, for most men all they want is your waist, and like Wizkid they want to see your naked body sleeping in their bed. Guys believe this is 21st century when they get your apple products cheap in no time; its working for them.
Code 8: Don't be a fool, most men are professional in keeping your head in the cloud and they enjoy seeing you waste your time. They tied your legs with solving all of your needs and discuss less of seeing your parents till you are weary and old.
Code 9: They attract you with time, they take what they want in time and they leave most times, in all wasting your precious time.
CODE 10: Guys tread in your fears; we know your deepest fear and we take advantage of it. What is your deepest fear? Face it.
Disclaimer: All articles and letters published on MyNews24 have been independently written by members of News24's community. The views of users published on News24 are therefore their own and do not necessarily represent the views of News24. News24 editors also reserve the right to edit or delete any and all comments received.