Believe me, there is more to life than sex and materials things. If you are still a slave to any of the two things I just mention above, then you have not discovered your purpose in life.
Some are comfortable with their financial status, but are being foolish all in the name of feelings. Some deemed it fit to betray their worth, take shits and succumb to humiliation and harsh treatments, all in the struggle to get money and material things from men who do not worth them in all angles of life. Guys, Although, only few women are always fortunate enough to discover their purpose and value early in life, some dont even do, in their entire life. why not teach her how to discover her worth, or walk away as a gentle man instead of taking advantage of her and engage in sinful acts afterall you are very sure you wont be marrying her and love is not enough when a lady is not ready.
Please, as a lady i want you to sit today and ask yourself what are your acheivements over the years? and I'm certain that they will not be more than cloths, fancy phones, designer bags, shoes, and if it you have been so favoured, a car. If you could be sincere to yourself, remember all you have passed through, having to pretend that you love someone, allowing them to use your body, your precious body, all in exchange of money and material things
. At the end, its that innocent gentle man that will still come along and make you a wife, and you will be certain that considering and evaluating your past, you rarelly do not worth his love. At the end, all that which you desired, that makes you to subject your precious body to use, rough handling and probably s*x will be useless. Then, you will sit down and count the people whom has used you like a taxi and you will just be pitying your poor life. Beleive me, its not worth it, the clothes, the fun, hangouts, flashy things, altogether be it as it may are not worth your stress and pain in the end remember you can even end up contacting HIV and thus becoming the end of the road for you.
Forget what your freinds are wearing, forget the phones that they are using, cos year after year, better things are invented, and you know the good news? It doesn't matter if you have yesterday or not, because, when you arrived tomorrow, you will be proud of your self. You could stand in midst of millions and be certain that your nakedness is a mystery to all of them. You will forget all you passed through within seconds and all the men that you turned down, even with their money, when you need it most, will testify, not just on earth, even hereafter, that you deserve your class, both on earth and in heaven. Learn to be contented today, for all we have is vanity upon vanity. Today is not the end of the world, so dont let what you are passing through define your worth or overall whom you are not. May God strenghten us all.
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