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Reasons to stay single and pleased in 2014

24 January 2014, 13:40 Daniel Obasi

2013 Just passed by and I hope you lived a fulfilled life, had a healthy relationship, broke up, made up and took a chance rolled a dice. I am about to welcome you into 2014 with a new crazy post.

 I know the title explains it all but don't get it twisted,  I have been getting feedbacks since I started this blog both negative and positive ones. The most impressive one i got from a reader was that all my articles are negative.

There are two ways to every thing I need,the easy and the hard way. I choose to write about the hard way just to bulletproof your mind against flying bullets. 

Back to our discussion on why you should say bye to relationship and dating this year. Have you thought about being alone ? I mean giving dating alot of space.

I know alot will be  running through your  head like ' What is Daniel trying to say?',maybe am just being of help.

They the truth is bitter then i asked, are you sure? what about lies is that cool.
Admit it, the truth is sweet so lets lick it together.

#.You Will Be More Focus In Anything You're Pursuing. 

Every individual that is born of a woman desires to be successful in anything they are doing. No one likes to be interupted, but we are the one that open doors for distractions.

Relationship is a time sucker and one of the basic thing it requires is time, though it can be managed, it still sucks even the tiny atoms from you.

Many use the saying "Behind Every Successful Man There is a Woman" as a cover, I laugh when I hear young people repeating that twisted saying,holding on things they don't understand.
The wise word is so deep and twisted so only the wise understands. 
Girls too need to come out of the blind and start believing they can be whoever they wants to be without someone dragging their  ass
Majority of the world famous people succeeded without a woman and man right by their side. The spent their time trying to see their dreams turn into reality. 

Work towards the success of anything you are into, if your are a student focus on how to be the best in your class.

I remember when I was younger my grandpa told me ' boy slow down never eat a fruit you barely know, let those that have a clue taste it , and never try sipping juice from it because what the future holds is far better than what we have now". 

I never understood him until when i grew up. His advices were not merely words but pictures. Never waste time trying to satisfy your emotions, the passion is blind but when your are successful in your works you will attract successful relationships. 

#You Can Gain Wealth while you are single,you don't have any string attached so your thoughts will be positive. 

#One of the major benefit a single man or woman enjoys is the increase of love for his/her self. 
Everything you own is yours alone no body else's. They say you can't love somebody unless you love yourself.
 I remember years back when I was in the dating world, one the mistake I did was that I never realize the importance of Loving self, but now I love myself so much that I cant really love someone else. 

#You are free : Freedom is 100‰ ,no one takes notes of your daily activities you don't have to ask him before you hit the club. You don't feel cheated, you are able to take care of your own emotional needs without beginning to feel in the wrong. 

#You can sleep at night because lovers don't sleep,  they spend their whole night missing each other texting ,calling and doing other stuffs but a single man sleeps like a baby. 
No more drama. Women love drama. They can make a big production from just about anything.Life can be peaceful again.

#No jealousy- This is the  one thing that reigns in every relationship, it hurts emotions but being single sets you completely free.

They say being single isn't right but if you hurt the right the right person you will be wrong all your life.

 During the single and free period you can use it to learn and prepare for marriage. One of the  major reason why relationships crash is because people don't take time to understand and they rush into relationships that they should have never began.

Being alone is boring to many so they get scared of it and dive from one relationship to another. 

Read more at  http://danielsitoabasi.blogspot.com/2014/01/reasons-to-stay-single-and-pleased-in.html

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